How To Get Ex Back - The Curiosity Factor
You have problems in getting your ex to return your phone calls or to respond to your efforts in wanting to get together with them. Now what ? Well you have to tap into the human psyche. Use human nature against your ex.
What I am talking about is curiosity. There is no better way to get someone’s attention than creating a little bit of curiosity. Just remember you must put some little thinking into this strategy.
Let me give you an example. Instead of saying to your ex “I need to speak to you. It is urgent. Please phone me back!” you instead say something like “Sorry to bother you just wanted to know how it is going with you. You would not believe what happened to me today. Remind me to tell you about it sometime.”
Now what do you think will get a greater percentage of responses. The bossy statement or the one where you create a little bit of curiosity. This may not be the best examples but I hope you can see that you can use the curiosity factor in your favor.
Now one last thing as I mentioned earlier you must put some thinking into this strategy because if you use it you must at least have something exciting to tell them when they do respond. Otherwise next time it will not work again. So you must use a little brain power on this one. But be assured if you do this right your ex will call you back or agree to see you.
